I wanna tell anybody of you who feel so hard to move on. Life is always be going on Guys, so you can't stuck to someone can't give you a hope. As follows some steps how to do it :
1. Stop stalking
Avoid all the thing that make you can stalk him. Like don't open the social media account used to chat. For beginners maybe hard enough but you've to force yourself to do that. Or for the first step you let yourself to stalk him but decrease the intensity. Example you used to stalk him five times a day, now you decrease the intensity to be three or twice a day. So you slowly habituate yourself without him.
2. Do your favorite activity
You can do anything that you like, the purpose is to occupy your mind with another thing. When your mind focus on another I think you can temporary forget about your feeling. You'll be busy and after that you'll be tired and the best choice when you feel tired is sleep. I recommend you to do a useful activity to fill your day like reading a book, learning foreign language, drawing, or anything you like. When I try this step I used to playing badminton with some of my friends because I like that.
3. Never talk about him to your friend, even your closest friend
When you talk about him, you'll remember everything you've done with him, it's not good because it'll retard the process. How can you forget if you always try to remember?
4. Pray
Pray to God that you want to forget him. I think God will support you because He don't want you to think someone more than you think Him. And because God don't want you to think someone who is not halal for you.
5. You should aware that you're worth
Love yourself, although you think that nobody loves you. If you think you'll get a happines if the boy you love can love you back, you're totally wrong girl. You can get more love from the people around you, like family, friends, neighbour, and from the person you help in the street. You deserve for loved by the person you love, it's all because you're worther than anything.
You're worth no matter what happen. Did you think that he was deserve to have anybody like you?
6. Continue steps 1-5 until you accustomed to not think him.
Good Luck 😊
1. Stop stalking
Avoid all the thing that make you can stalk him. Like don't open the social media account used to chat. For beginners maybe hard enough but you've to force yourself to do that. Or for the first step you let yourself to stalk him but decrease the intensity. Example you used to stalk him five times a day, now you decrease the intensity to be three or twice a day. So you slowly habituate yourself without him.
2. Do your favorite activity
You can do anything that you like, the purpose is to occupy your mind with another thing. When your mind focus on another I think you can temporary forget about your feeling. You'll be busy and after that you'll be tired and the best choice when you feel tired is sleep. I recommend you to do a useful activity to fill your day like reading a book, learning foreign language, drawing, or anything you like. When I try this step I used to playing badminton with some of my friends because I like that.
3. Never talk about him to your friend, even your closest friend
When you talk about him, you'll remember everything you've done with him, it's not good because it'll retard the process. How can you forget if you always try to remember?
4. Pray
Pray to God that you want to forget him. I think God will support you because He don't want you to think someone more than you think Him. And because God don't want you to think someone who is not halal for you.
5. You should aware that you're worth
Love yourself, although you think that nobody loves you. If you think you'll get a happines if the boy you love can love you back, you're totally wrong girl. You can get more love from the people around you, like family, friends, neighbour, and from the person you help in the street. You deserve for loved by the person you love, it's all because you're worther than anything.
You're worth no matter what happen. Did you think that he was deserve to have anybody like you?
6. Continue steps 1-5 until you accustomed to not think him.
Good Luck 😊
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